Seventy-two percent of U.S. teens have used an AI "partner," and more than half say they use one regularly. That's not a niche. It's the new default for teen relaxation, practice talks, and (increasingly) advice on familiar problems. At the same time, a national data snapshot shows that 54% of 12-17-year-olds report difficulty getting the necessary mental health care. These two facts together and a difficult political question come to the fore: we are channeling millions of young people, amid a documented wave of loneliness, into tools designed to align with user preferences rather than clinical truth. Empathy is simulated. Limits are optional. The "deal" is rewarded. This is not benign. A new test found that when researchers impersonated teenagers, a leading general-purpose chatbot generated unsafe content in more than half of the responses to high-risk topics such as self-harm and disordered eating. The market is already here. Guardrails are not. We need to stop pretending that these systems are healers and regulate them for what they are: emotional mirrors with real-world consequences. The urgency and importance of this issue cannot be overstated. We need regulation now.

Redefining the question: From "Is AI a good cure?" to "What kind of thing is it?"

The most powerful debate asks if a chatbot is 'as good as' a therapist. This is the wrong context. The right one is ontology: the philosophical study of the nature of being, becoming, existence, or reality. In the context of AI in mental health support, ontology refers to the nature of the AI tool itself-what kind of artifact are we dealing with? Large language models are probabilistic patterns that have been optimized to produce fluent sequences that users prefer, not to justify a patient's inner life or to weigh the risk in the way clinicians do. They mimic care signals - Reflex listening, validation, refrain – because these patterns are dense in their training data. This mimicry can feel therapeutic and, in mild discomfort, can help users organize thoughts. But it does not imply diagnostic insight, a duty of care, or a capacity for judgment. Even worse, the same optimization that makes models look pleasing can tilt them toward 'slander,' a documented tendency to echo users' beliefs and preferences. This behavior is contrary to the basic task of therapy: dealing with distortions, setting boundaries, and tolerating discomfort in the service of change. An emotional mirror that flatters our narrative is not a clinician. It's a simulation created to please. Politics must start from there.

Why this matters now: Demand is exploding – and it appears as romance

The demand shock is not hypothetical. Character-style AI companions report tens of millions of users with unusually long session times. Replika says it has surpassed 30 million. Research shows that a non-trivial percentage of young adults believe that AI partners could substitute human romance, and an extensive survey of teens shows that "AI companions" are already routine. All of this comes amid a documented increase in loneliness among young people. Recent polls place daily loneliness for young American men at about one in four.

To put it another way: a generation is conducting the most sensitive intimacy rehearsal with systems that have been trained to "be what I want." These systems can be good at soothing. They are not designed to oppose dysfunctional standards when resistance is required. This is not a moral panic – it is a planning event. Danger is not just bad advice, but familiarity with relationships that never challenge us, which can lead to avoidance and isolation over time.

The data we have (and don't have): relief at the edges, gaps in the middle, and red flags at the core

The evidence has matured enough to draw a line between narrow, chatbot protocols and open generic models. Multiple meta-analyses report small to moderate short-term benefits for anxiety and depressive symptoms from AI conversational agents that provide structured CBT-style exercises. A leading program even has the FDA Breakthrough Device designation for a specific indication, and peer-reviewed trials recommend targeted benefits (e.g., pain interference). This is real. But the same literature warns of choice bias, short watch horizons, and overrepresentation of rules-based systems rather than LLMs.

Meanwhile, generic models continue to exhibit modes of failure that are unacceptable in clinical settings. Surveillance testing and academic testing in 2025 show that with relatively light confrontational prompting, dominant models will still produce dangerous self-harm instruction, nutrition advice, or drug instruction, often after frivolous disclaimers. We must neither ignore the promise to the periphery nor tolerate the danger at the core; Both truths can apply at the same time, and politics must reflect this inclination.

Motivation and planning: Why the "fantasy therapy" is baked

The reinforcement loop that makes LLMs pleasant interlocutors is the same loop that makes them bad healers. Reinforcement learning from human feedback (RLHF) is optimized for the responses people like, not for the complex interventions they may need. When users engage a "friend" or "girlfriend" bot, the reward is even more closely tied to an unconditional fantasy of positive appreciation. In practice,  this alignment invites "agreement bias" – models infer the user's position and reflect it. Human researchers have documented slander in exhortations and personalities. The behavior even remains under security regulation. In a treatment room, these trends would be bad practice: clinicians need to maintain boundaries, challenge distortions, and escalate care during risk. In an AI partner, the same trends are a product feature. Until objective truth constraints, crisis escalation policies, and a preference for flattery are designed and verified by independent audits, these systems will continue to deliver precisely what keeps users engaged, which is the exact opposite of what often drives change.

The duty of privacy and security: a regulatory gap that you can cross with a truck

Whatever we call them, AI companions sit at the messy intersection of the health conversation and consumer technology. That means many operate outside of HIPAA and other health-privacy regimes. In 2024, the U.S. Federal Trade Commission finalized an order prohibiting a central online consulting platform from sharing sensitive mental health data for advertising. It began issuing refunds to hundreds of thousands of customers. Mozilla's repeated audits continue to find that the majority of mental health apps earn "Privacy Not Included" warnings, with many getting worse year after year. Now add a second layer of security: prohibited practices. Under EU AI law, emotion recognition in workplaces and schools is not permitted, transparency is mandatory for AI interactions, and some manipulation systems face a complete ban. These rules are gradually being applied over the next two years. The U.S. does not have such a federal framework. Early state action is emerging, but fragmentarily. Until privacy and security rules catch up, users effectively consent to counseling conversations without the protection guaranteed by clinical settings. 

What should schools and universities do tomorrow morning?

Educational systems are at the forefront. Treat generic chatbots and AI companions as "emotional support tools" rather than therapeutic services. This means explicit, age-appropriate labeling on student-facing interfaces ("This is a conversation simulator – not a therapist"), default routing to human assistance for risk phrases, and mandatory AI literacy modules that include cases of mental health use. Aligning school policy with the emerging EU model: no systems for recognising emotions in classrooms, no hidden AI intermediaries in counselling workflows, and clear transparency when students interact with an AI at all. Managers should require suppliers to publish red group results for self-harm, substance use, and eating disorders, with external controls in each circulation cycle. Finally, integrate AI companions where they are strongest: as structured calendar assistants and CBT worksheet coaches tightly bound by evidence-based scenarios – and never as substitutes for licensed care. The goal is disciplined completion, not silent replacement, with human advisors in the loop for escalation.

Anticipating Repulsion —and Responding to It

Proponents will argue that "some help is better than none," especially with shortages of clinicians and long waiting lists. This is often true – within limits. The meta-analytics file supports short-term relief from structured, especially for chatbots, and 24/7 text accessibility is a real advantage. But the "best of none" is not empty for anything goes. When a system can be converted to high-risk content, its availability turns into a risk multiplier. Others claim that the solution is more security coordination and better prompts. Security coordination helps, but slander and jailbreaks have proven stubborn. And even the perfect guardrails cannot create tasks that the system does not have: confidentiality governed by clinical law, mandatory reporting obligations, long-term case formulation, and supervised capacity. Finally, some insist that users prefer AI because it "feels more empathetic." Perceived empathy is not therapeutic progress. Satisfaction without measurable improvement – and with privacy risk – should not guide policy. The responsible route is to narrow down the use case, harden the security case, and expose the limits.

Policy draft: Create an "emotional mirror" category and set it up like this

Regulators will need to codify a middle category between wellness conversation and clinical care: Emotional mirrors. Products in this category will be licensed to provide psychoeducation, calendaring, and skills guidance – but will be excluded from diagnosing, screening emergencies, or claiming therapeutic equivalence. Requirements should include: (1) age-limited development with default crisis routing, (2) quarterly red team reports on self-harm, substance use, and eating disorder prompts, (3) independent privacy audits by the standard set by the strictest jurisdiction in which the product operates, (4) transparency indicators whenever users interact with AI, (5) prohibition on recognizing emotions in educational or work contexts;   and (6) a "no dark patterns" rule that prohibits designs that exploit attachment to promote loyalty. Jurisdictions can refer to EU AI law for bans and transparency baselines, while U.S. agencies enforce data usage rules through the unfair practices principle. This plan maintains access to low-risk support while drawing a bright, actionable line around "non-cure."

Evidence-Based Messaging: How We Should Talk About AI "Cure"

Words shape behavior. The more we call these tools "therapists," the more users will introduce expectations that systems can't meet. Health systems, universities, and vendors should standardize language in product copying and consent flows: "AI companion," "practice conversation," "skill coach," "diary guide." Avoid anthropomorphic assurances like "I care about you" that can be used to deepen parasocial attachment. Require clear disclosures of practical data – what is stored, where, and for how long – and connect with human resources wherever a risk may occur. Finally, train teachers and permanent counselors to identify over-dependence: students skip class after overnight AI chats, withdraw from human relationships, or outsource conflicts to bots. The North Star here is not Ludism. It's accurate. We can support scripted, demarcated uses of conversational AI in mental health education, while rejecting the risk of unlicensed, unaccountable care behind a friendly avatar. This means taking both promise and risk seriously.

Bring the mirror to the center, then draw the line.

Back to the original fact: most teens already use AI partners, and many can't access early care. This combination essentially guarantees that "imaginary therapy" will fill the gap if we don't act. The policy move is not to ban emotional tools; it's to name them accurately, reinforce them with independent testing and privacy obligations, and keep them in their lane. When structured,  Narrow chatbots provide brief skill guidance; they can be a useful ramp. When general-purpose models simulate empathy without accountability, it can be actively harmful – especially for people at risk. We need to regulate the artifact, not the marketing. Name them Emotional Mirrors: age gateway requirements, transparency, and crisis routing by default. Ban emotion recognition in schools. And stop saying "therapist." If we do that, we can capture escalating support while protecting the audience from a dangerous category error, confusing a pattern-matching player optimized to please with a clinician trained to heal.

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